Through the years, I have notice that we always say: “I want he/she to be proud of me.”, instead of saying: “I want to be proud of myself.”. Now I ask you … Which of them is the most important?
If you ask me, I will absolutely choose the second option. In my opinion, it’s more important to be proud of yourself, than trying to make other proud. Why? It’s really simple, and I’ll give you an example to make it easier to understand:
What will you choose, make your family proud, or be proud of yourself because you married the person you love?
Your family is a rich family, and they want you to marry a person from the high society, just like your, even when you love another person(which is not from the high society).
Without doubt, I’ll choose to marry with the person I love. This is just an example, there are definitely more way to be proud of yourself. For example, in some of my post I talk about some of the feelings I have about myself. In the case of “Have you ever wonder” I talk about some things I’m doing to become more proud of myself, and to obviously love me more. Also, I have to say that I’m proud of some some others, such as “Believe in yourself!” and “Self-esteem!”.
To make all this shorter … what I want you to understand, is that you should be proud of yourself before anybody can be proud of you.
Now, do you agree with me? Comment below your opinion!